A GUIDE WHO’S WALKED THE WALK
From corporate success to mid-life crisis to A Lifeaholic — I know the path and I can help you navigate it.
ABOUT SHARJEEL
At 38, I made the bold decision to step away from a thriving career as a Big 4 Partner, driven by a quest for deeper meaning of life. My journey since then has been nothing short of a rollercoaster—navigating through three diverse career paths, dabbling in entrepreneurship and re-evaluating long-held societal life beliefs. Along the way, I uncovered hidden passions & potential, faced the occasional spectacular flop and re-discovered myself and true love.
Through these experiences, I cracked the code to living a life brimming with purpose and joy. Now, I'm here to share those secrets and guide you through the mid-life maze and make you a lifeaholic. If you’re feeling lost or stuck, think of me as your personal compass, helping you reconnect with your authentic self and uncover the fulfillment you’ve been searching for.
Fasten your helmet, because the journey to your true self can be like going down a zipline—thrilling, daring, and totally worth the ride!
MY STORY
Lost and bewildered, I sought a new path — one where I felt truly alive and accepted, where each day was a celebration of authenticity and every moment held the promise of adventure. But more importantly, where I am fueled by a thirst for meaning and fulfillment.
Hence I embarked on a long self-discovery journey and I feel I am still on one.
In the ensuing years, I began pursuing my passions, daring to take risks and delving into a variety of work and non-work-related ventures and experiences. Through failure in three startups, going through bankruptcy I learnt the art of resilience, self-belief and how to never give up on one’s dreams.
In my forties, when I least expected it, love found me, and it changed everything. It filled my heart with a sense of peace and gave me unwavering faith and support as I pursued my unconventional path towards living my dream life.
Amidst the chaos of entrepreneurship and search for meaning, I unearthed my true calling - to inspire and enable people towards a life of purpose and joy. Combining my corporate leadership skills with the life lessons of self-discovery, I set out on a mission to educate others to find their true-self and purpose and ignite their inner flame of passion to help them maximize their potential.
I welcome you into the fold of the "Be a Lifeaholic" quest and to join the Tribe.
Once upon a time, in a city of 25 million people, there lived a man who seemed to have it all figured out quite early in life. But little did he know that life held a meaning far beyond his current perception. This person was me.
Born into a family of accountants, I followed the conventional path, jumping into the world of numbers and consultancy projects like a frog into a well, oblivious to the vastness beyond.
Years flew by as I ticked off the checkboxes of societal standards and success - Chartered Accountancy degree, a Partnership at EY at the age of 32, clients and projects that spanned continents, loving friends and family and millions of savings in the bank.
Yet, at 38, staring down from the top of the corporate ladder, I couldn't shake the feeling that something was amiss. There was this emptiness both outside and within me which I couldn’t name.
I didn't know what I wanted to do in life but I knew deep down inside me that I didn't come to this world to just make money, attain status and power and live the same life, every year on repeat.
With a resignation that sent ripples of disbelief throughout my circles, I bid adieu to the predictable life I'd crafted after 17 year of working in the corporate world.
MY VISION
A world full of "Lifeaholics" redefining what it means to live a good life i.e. driven by love, passion and purpose—living an authentic life, on their own terms - creating a peaceful, beautiful and a fun world for all.
MY MISSION
I’m on a mission to help you unlock your true potential and live a life fuelled by purpose. Through intuitive, easy-to-use coaching tools, I guide you on your unique journey of self-discovery, empowering you to gain deeper insights into who you are and what truly matters to you in life. My approach allows you to take charge of your own path, achieving your goals with speed and clarity. My mission is to inspire 10 million ‘Lifeaholics’ by 2030, creating a ripple of positive transformation that makes the world more beautiful, peaceful, and full of joy.
WHO IS A "LIFEAHOLIC"?
Here’s how a Lifeaholic stands apart from a non-Lifeaholic:
1. Mindset
Lifeaholic: Sees life as an adventure to explore and embrace. They wake up with purpose and curiosity, excited to chase meaning and joy every day.
Non-Lifeaholic: Views life as a series of tasks to get through. Their days often feel like a checklist, and they’re stuck in “survival mode.”
2. Authenticity
Lifeaholic: Lives boldly as their truest self, unapologetic about their quirks, passions, and choices. They’re not worried about what others think.
Non-Lifeaholic: Shapes their life around societal expectations or others' opinions, often feeling disconnected from their authentic self.
3. Focus
Lifeaholic: Prioritizes what truly matters—passion, growth, love, and making a difference. They understand that joy is found in the journey, not just the destination.
Non-Lifeaholic: Spends their time chasing external achievements, material success, or “someday goals,” often missing the present.
4. Balance
Lifeaholic: Creates harmony in all aspects of life—work, play, health, relationships, and personal growth. They know the art of balancing passion with peace.
Non-Lifeaholic: Allows one area of life, like work, to dominate, often leading to burnout, imbalance, or a lack of fulfillment.
5. Perspective on Joy
Lifeaholic: Finds beauty in both the big wins and the small, everyday moments. They make joy a priority, even in the mundane.
Non-Lifeaholic: Reserves joy for special occasions or milestones, often feeling like they’re “waiting” for happiness to arrive.
6. Action
Lifeaholic: Takes intentional steps to create a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose. They’re proactive about change and growth.
Non-Lifeaholic: Feels stuck, letting fear, doubt, or inertia keep them from making bold, life-changing moves.
A Lifeaholic doesn’t settle for a mediocre life—they live intentionally, passionately, and authentically.
A Lifeaholic’s mission? To unleash their full potential, create harmony within and around them, and turn every day into an extraordinary celebration of life. They inspire others to do the same, proving that a fulfilled life isn’t just a dream—it’s a choice.
"The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams."
OPRAH WINFREY
What is the best way to meditate? Sit under the shower :-) My favorite activity in the mountains. Water has the power to cleanse not only my body but my soul.
Channeling my inner Picasso in an artist's house in Thailand with a self-painted mask! Who knew meditation could be this colorful? I never shy away trying new ways to self-expression.
Ready to soaring above the mountains on my solo para-gliding flight. Embracing new adventures expands my horizons, reshaping beliefs and revealing the boundless possibilities beyond.
GLIMPSES OF SOME OF MY EXPERIENCES
These photos offer a glimpse into my rich tapestry of experiences, inviting you to join me on a journey of inspiration, connection, and shared growth. They reflect the type of person you'll be receiving coaching from, showcasing the unique experiences that have shaped me and the approach and tools I've developed along the way, now shared with you through A Quest for Life programs.
Standing tall on the Passu Bridge: a daring feat in the heart of the Karakoram range. For me, the mountains are a sacred sanctuary. Each visit is a pilgrimage, an exchange of energy that nourishes my soul and calls me back time and again.
Immersed in the vibrant culture of the Kalash people in Pakistan. Exploring diverse communities expands my horizons, offering new perspectives and enriching experiences. From sharing meals to dancing to local tunes, every encounter is a celebration of humanity's diversity and belonging. In the end, we are all one.
Sailing into the heart of tradition on Manchar Lake, where boathouses hold centuries old stories. I got an opportunity to spend a night with a local family on their boathouse. It was a humbling experience to get to know their simple lifestyle. Needs are same, wants can be never-ending.
Surrounded by eager minds in a simple classroom. As a mentor in an underprivileged area of Karachi, I was humbled by the resilience and wisdom of these students. This program became a bridge between our worlds, fostering understanding and sparking conversations about possibility and potential. I learnt more from them then they probably did from me.
Embarking on a Hindu spiritual journey during Karth ki Punam, we traversed through the moonlit desert of Thar. As dawn broke, we immersed ourselves in a sacred pool, shedding old garments and emerging renewed—a symbolic cleansing of body and soul amidst the vast expanse of the desert.
"Don't wait. The time will never be just right."
NAPOLEON HILL
Core Values We Practice
Welcome to AQFL, where our guiding principles shape everything we do. Here’s how we live them:
Embrace Truth: Truth isn’t just a value—it’s our compass. At AQFL, we let honesty and authenticity light the way, making decisions that are grounded in what’s real and true.
Cultivate Goodness: Goodness is in our DNA. We practice kindness, compassion, and empathy every day, sparking a ripple of positivity that flows outwards to everyone we meet.
Seek & Create Beauty: We see beauty in the small things. From a simple moment to a grand idea, we find joy in the ordinary and create beauty with every thought and action. Life’s too short to miss the magic in the mundane.
Nurture Love: Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a force. We foster love in every interaction, supporting connections that are genuine and transformative—starting with the love we have for ourselves.
Live Authentically: We live for authenticity. Our actions align with our true selves, and we encourage everyone to do the same—because a life of authenticity is the only kind worth living.
Dare to Win: We don’t play it safe. Taking bold, calculated risks is how we grow. Whether it’s pushing limits or seizing opportunities, we lead by example and embrace the challenge.
Foster Growth: Growth is in our bones. We’re constantly evolving, embracing change, and challenging ourselves to be better. It’s the AQFL way—continuous improvement is always on the horizon.
Be Mindful: The present moment is where it’s at. We stay in the now, focusing on the beauty and potential of today, leaving regrets and worries in the past and future where they belong.
Flow Creatively: Creativity is our superpower. Whether it’s art, writing, or innovative thinking, we channel our passions to make meaningful contributions that inspire and enrich our lives and the world around us.
Strive for Balance: Balance is the secret to lasting fulfillment. We’re all about finding harmony—work and play, productivity and relaxation—living with intention and purpose, every single day.
WHY ME?
Discover the difference :-)
Diverse Expertise:
With a rich blend of corporate experience, entrepreneurial spirit, and global adventures spanning over 30 countries, I bring a unique perspective to life coaching—an amalgamation of worldly wisdom, spiritual context and practical know-how.
Similar Experience:
I’ve walked through the fog of mid-life uncertainty, feeling lost and helpless. I know the challenges you’re facing because I’ve been there myself, and that’s why I’m uniquely equipped to help you navigate your own journey.
Proven Resilience:
My journey is not just about successes but also navigating through failures, bankruptcy, and overcoming obstacles. I've learned firsthand the value of resilience, perseverance, and the power of a positive mindset—all essential elements in your transformation journey.
Innovative Approach:
Unlike traditional coaching methods, I offer a structured and activity based approach that has worked for 100s of successful transformations. I also believe that "everything is inside you" hence i have created self-guided life kits and life tools designed to empower you on your journey of self-discovery. With my signature approach, you'll have the freedom to explore, learn, and grow at your own pace, unlocking your full potential every step of the way. The approach is easy to understand, simple to follow and quick in giving results.
Authentic Connection:
As your coach, I'm not just here to guide you—I'm here to walk alongside you, sharing in your joys, challenges, and triumphs. My coaching style is rooted in empathy, understanding, and a touch of humor, creating a supportive and uplifting environment for your personal growth.
Trustworthiness and Integrity
You can count on me to always act with honesty and keep everything we discuss confidential. I’m here to provide reliable, ethical support, so you can feel completely confident in the coaching journey we’ll embark on together.Non-Judgmental Attitude
You’ll never feel judged here. I offer a judgment-free zone where you can be yourself, explore your true feelings, and discover the clarity you need to make bold, confident choices for your life.Transformative Results:
My goal isn't just to help you achieve your goals—it's to help you surpass them. With my personalized coaching and innovative tools, you'll experience lasting transformation that transcends the coaching sessions, empowering you to live a life of purpose, passion, and fulfillment.
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